How to Face your Halloween Dating Fears!

How to Face your Halloween Dating Fears!
Dating can be really scary! You just don't know which
characters you will run into. When going to singles events
or dating online, it's as if you are going to a costume
party! However, if you face your demons, you will find out
that they aren't as scary as they once appeared. So who or
what is holding you back from going out there to date this
month of ghoulish Halloween?

Here is some dating advice for women and men that will
cover the casts of gremlins that you may run into the next
singles party or event!

1. The Rejecting Black Cat- This gremlin rejects your
advances. She makes your self-esteem plummet! She won't
even cross your path. Just know it's her issue and if she
was a friendly cat, she would be open to hanging out with
you!

2. Mirror- Mirror ? This gremlin requires that you take a
good look at yourself in the mirror to access what you may
be doing to turn off suitors or an attitude that is not
friendly and inviting that makes you seem aloof. Once you
see what's really going on, you can fix yourself up and
have more success with dating!

3. Father Time Clock -- This one gets scarier and scarier
as time goes on. Do you feel time running out for you?
Are you saying to yourself that you are too old to date?
Hogwash! People get into serious relationships and may
even marry at the age of 80 as they do in their 30's. It's
good to know Father Time Clock is there, but don't give him
much power over you!

4. The Bad Date Devil ? Yes, when you go out and date, you
may have to put up with some bad dates! Don't let this
create relationship issues for you, but rather know that it
is part of the process. This devil is not such a bad guy.
He/she is just not right for you. Know that you can move
onto the next date who will hopefully be an angel!

5. The Bad Wolf Guy in Sheep's costume ? He looks like a
nice guy, but his wolf ears are sticking out! You don't
see them at first. He is charming, strings you along and
then, when you fall for him, his true wolf-self comes out,
creating relationship issues for you. Hopefully, it's not
too late! Learn to better detect the personality of the
wolf to see through his sheep costume.

How do you make friends with these gremlins? My dating
advice for women and men, is to learn from these gremlins
and the wisdom you may gain for the future. By knowing
they exist, you will be less likely to fear them. Also,
know that you can handle meeting them and even going on a
date or holding conversation with them. They provide you
with information that is valuable to you ? a real "treat"
shall we say, and not such a "trick" after all! There are
plenty of characters in the room. Just move onto someone
who is more in line with what you are looking for ? like
those angels, good witches and kind warlocks!

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Amy Schoen, MBA, CPCC, certified professional life coach
and dating-relationship expert, helps singles to attract
the right romantic relationship into their lives, is the
author of ?Motivated to Marry?-Now There is a Better Method
for Dating and Relationships!? and speaks nationally to
groups on dating and relationships. For dating tips for men
and women, subscribe to her monthly ezine and teleclasses
at: http://www.heartmindconnection.com