No matter how well you know your way around a man’s body, there’s always a new angle to be unearthed. Here are some ways to understand him and excite both of you. Use your Hands and Mouth
While making eye contact and moaning are great oral sex extras, the moves that tips men over the edge is the hand/mouth combo; a skill many women forget to employ. Often a woman will focus so much on giving oral sex she forgets all about her hands. But when her hands go up and down with her mouth – wow!
To give your man this multitasking thrill, wrap your fingers around the base of his shaft and move your hand in time with your mouth. It creates twice the stimulation and more friction than your mouth alone.
Dominate Them
Men feel constant pressure to perform, from seducing you to pleasing you in bed. Being passive lets them focus fully on their enjoyment. So show him your naughty side by surprising him in the shower with a wet and wild quickie and seduce him when he least expects it. If he’s watching TV, kiss him with lots of tongue and start playing your own ball game.
Men would Rather get Cozy with their Console
This is strange, but occasionally a man does pass up the opportunity of good sex so that he can play computer games. How weird is that? But it’s not personal; it’s a physiological response. Trying to win a game releases testosterone, which makes men want to keep conquering, despite distractions.
They Love Kissing
A lot of men crave more time just locking lips. Still, they can be limited in their kissing style, employing an ‘if it works for me, it must work for her’ attitude. Fortunately, that laid back attitude makes lackluster kisses easy to retain. Hold his head still, tell him to stop and let him just receive your kisses for a minute. That way, whether you like it slow, or hot and heavy, he’ll know how to kiss you.
They Measure their Manhood Two Ways
Although guys often joke about wanting a bigger penis, a recent study found that 88% of men consider their package to be average or big. So why all the penis enlargement email spam? Apparently, some guys may be insecure about their erect equipment. If your man is small, try deep penetration positions, such as doggie style. In missionary, put a pillow under your pelvis and rest your feet on his shoulders. If you’re on top, grind in circles and boost clitoral stimulation by rubbing against his pelvic bone. With these tricks size won’t matter…much.
They Don’t Think You Taste Weird
Some women assume that if a man’s hesitant about giving oral sex, he must be offended by their V-zone. But if he’s not going all out, it’s sometimes because you seem self conscious and he thinks he’s doing something wrong, or you’re just not into that. So next time he heads south, focus on the sensations, not your worries. Make eye contact and run your fingers through his hair to help you both feel connected. Just acting appreciative will help him get into it more, which in turn can help you relax.
They Crave Feedback
Even sexually adept and considerate men sometimes need to be pointed in the right direction. Men are eager to please their partners, so when something works in bed with one woman, they repeat it with their next partner – even if her turn-ons are totally different. Do yourself a favor and let him know what feels fantastic and what doesn’t.
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